From helplessness to hope

Our co-founders David and Deborah Cooper live with what many consider a parent’s worst nightmare: the loss of their son Eli.

Eli Nathan Cooper, 1979 – 2010

The Cooper’s healthy infant son was a pure blessing in their lives. Happy, curious, intelligent – Eli grew into a child with a quick wit and easy laughter. He loved to sing, taught himself guitar, and especially enjoyed playing music in his work with children. So many gifts and a caring nature – it seemed Eli’s future held the promise of unlimited possibilities.

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Leaving boyhood behind

In his late teens, Eli began to struggle with mental illness. His parents sought answers from doctors, desperate to provide him with all the help they could. His diagnoses: Depression and Anxiety – and later, Bipolar Disorder.

With psychiatric care and medication, Eli managed the best he could through his early adulthood. He tried hard to overcome the challenge of his mental illness. He wanted to follow his dreams. But his progressive condition was insistent, robbing him of all hope for a happy, healthy life.

Then, just shy of his 31st birthday, Eli decided he just couldn’t fight anymore.

From sorrow, to vision

It goes without saying, Eli’s loss was David and Deborah’s darkest hour – finality to an ordeal that was cruel and prolonged. In the depths of their sorrow, the Cooper’s conceived a vision that gave them the strength to move forward, a vision they hoped would spare other families from the pain Eli and their whole family experienced. The vision known as Eli’s Place was born.

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